The other half of this is "Don't kiss my butt unless I TELL you to kiss it." Not everyone wants their hind parts sucked on. There are probably 10 guy subs for every female Domme.Butt kissing is easy, making yourself interesting is a challenge.Don't be so needy that you will fall for any romantic line tossed at you only to end up with a heartache when you find out he is a player. My favorite newbie line, "I was born Dominant".....or, "I've been a Dom my entire life." Those lines should tip you off. Bottom line: Know as much as possible about domination and submission BEFORE seeking a Dom.Take your time and get to know him as a man before even thinking about discussing a D/s relationship. They may have a dominant personality BUT that does NOT NOT NOT make a man A Dominant in the D/s sense. 3) Many Online Dominants are simply looking for an ego boost, an orgasm, or both.You may however make your Chat Room membership, using the same name as your Community acccount (if availible) our Chat Rooms works best with up to date, full Browsers Still having problems contact Admin Please remember we are a free site, our Email is not always manned 24/7 Need a Community account? A condition of entry is a completed profile, marked visible to all users. Those denying requests from moderators will be removed and banned on discovery. Please show respect and ask permission before sending a PM (Private message) some Dommes do not respond well to unsolicited PM's Please ask to send one! If you are unhappy with anyone or any thing in Collar N cuffs chat please contact the owners at Collar [email protected] discussion with moderators by any means will make your ban permanent. Always be Respectful, Manners count everywhere in life..!!! Remember everyone has their own lives, lifestyles, and fetishes; please be respectful to everyone's opinions. NO Lurking (not joining in on chat) lurkers will be removed (at least say hello). NO cyber (online sex) in the Lounge, please use the Dungeon or take it privately Males impersonating females Dominants will not be tolerated and will result in immediate bans. This chat is open to Dominant women, and male submissive only, female submissive are most welcome if they serve, or wish to serve in a Femdom relationship. Anyone under the age of 18, SPAM of any kind, Advertising of any kind, Money or financial Domination, Incest, Bestiality (sex with animals), Insults, or flames Libel, Age play, Snuff topics, or those involving death of yourself, or another, Topics intended to inflame, or defame.
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