That fear and that passivity will have to be addressed and looked square in the eye if you are to solve this problem of yours.You say you can’t build up enough energy to date, but the message that is really communicated is that you feel too much like a “dork” to date.We ended up being in the coffee shop for 2 hours - he seemed kind of surprised (in a good way) that we were there that long.Turns out we'd both parked our cars over the road in the car park of a shopping centre.
I think that I have three problems: #1 – I cannot build up enough energy to go out and meet women. I am not shy in normal social situations, but just going up to a woman and talking to her is not a skill of mine. I am much more comfortable not expressing intimacy to anyone. I would consider myself over 10 years “behind the curve” and I really feel like a loser. I tend to be a “glass is half empty” type of person.Both times when we talked, the conversation flowed well and lasted for over 20 minutes.At the end of our second conversation, I wasn't sure if he was going to suggest meeting up, so I mentioned it.When it was time to go, we went to his car (it was closer to where we were - I didn't mind).Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads. I would be friends with one and that would be the extent of the relationship.